funny R the ways of world!

Boys and girls are grown differently... boys are not supposed to be afraid..they r taught chivalary,they have to gaurd others...take all responsibilities; while gilrs are made to grow with their fears and insecurities..which are eventually incorporated as values in their lives... bold self sufficient girls are considered uncultured... y all taboos and behavioral limits only for girls..



a girl child is never taught to grow over their fears..they can b afraid of anythng while a "boy " has to keep up with the tag of being a boy...he cannot be afraid he has to be the bold saviour of all . if a guy has some fears he is forced to conquer them, as a part of chivalary... bt when a girl is concerned those fears can persisit and taken care by the father before marriage and her man later on.why cant' we teach daughters to fight thy fears... y is it alwys jst ok for a girl to b afraid!??

some parents dnt' do this..(very good u say!!) untill the girl is not mature.once they grow up all these things creep up all of a sudden... a gilr who ws used to being her way through out is now asked to "dress like a girl" and eventually act like a girl meaning... be coy...sweet ... and submissive.. and then those u rebel..are labelled unfairly...

common now!!! u cnnot ask ne body to jst change overnite..being brought up like a child and then one morning u wake up to find that u are no longer ur parents child but a girl child! act like a lady...i say--- bullshit!!

dnt' go out late at nite...the world is not gud..and wat not that u get to hear!! all the rules u r taught through childhood change... all of a sudden!!
funny!!
ironically funny!

my first blog...

well dn't know much about blogging bt i guess its bout expressing ur self, letting the world know u!ur thoughts..ur experiences..ur believes, knowledge n all that u possibly cn give. for me, i came here...to help people.
yes indeed!! .. i read somewhere that "thoughts" are the most powerful tools. tools that cn help you carve a life of fulfillment, life of more than jst living..a life of experiencing richness in every walk of life. i believe every one has a set of experiences..some of us track each event n mark things frm it with an observant eye...while others jst let thngs pass by unnoticed.. im of the former cult! i like keenly observing thngs around me..observing life..its various facets, emotions, logics et al. from all these observations i manage to draw some conclusions, decipher the hidden messages for me, for every one else, and today vn the whole word is shifting to a virtual base i thought to follow the suit...i have realized there are many dimensions of looking at a particular thing or phenomenon, so expressing one idea here may enlighten the other dimensions to me. which in turn may trigger off a new way of thinking indeed an important thing to susceed in life..coz some one told me if cnnot walk with a person who disagrees wid you, u won't learn any thing new!
most of my blogs would be dealing with philosophy, physcology of human mind and my daily observations..well thses are the things which i find more than enchanting n intriguing n worth pondering over..
may be my thoughts can make a difference to this world, peace, love for humans n all the good stuff which the beauty pagant winners say in their speeches may finally come true!..... i dn't expect miracles to happen lk this ....bt i cn spot the faint existence of a positive change. even if one of these blogs help a person spiritually mentally or otherwise as a jejune literary work (bringing a smile of being smater than i m)..ill b more than happy.it will help u in some way! plz read the further blogs n do post ur comments
thanks!