Boys and girls are grown differently... boys are not supposed to be afraid..they r taught chivalary,they have to gaurd others...take all responsibilities; while gilrs are made to grow with their fears and insecurities..which are eventually incorporated as values in their lives... bold self sufficient girls are considered uncultured... y all taboos and behavioral limits only for girls..
a girl child is never taught to grow over their fears..they can b afraid of anythng while a "boy " has to keep up with the tag of being a boy...he cannot be afraid he has to be the bold saviour of all . if a guy has some fears he is forced to conquer them, as a part of chivalary... bt when a girl is concerned those fears can persisit and taken care by the father before marriage and her man later on.why cant' we teach daughters to fight thy fears... y is it alwys jst ok for a girl to b afraid!??
some parents dnt' do this..(very good u say!!) untill the girl is not mature.once they grow up all these things creep up all of a sudden... a gilr who ws used to being her way through out is now asked to "dress like a girl" and eventually act like a girl meaning... be coy...sweet ... and submissive.. and then those u rebel..are labelled unfairly...
common now!!! u cnnot ask ne body to jst change overnite..being brought up like a child and then one morning u wake up to find that u are no longer ur parents child but a girl child! act like a lady...i say--- bullshit!!
dnt' go out late at nite...the world is not gud..and wat not that u get to hear!! all the rules u r taught through childhood change... all of a sudden!!
funny!!
ironically funny!
Monday, December 24, 2007
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